THE TROUBLE WITH BEING GIFTED…..
Great morning to you! Its a new day and another opportunity to get it right again!!!
I have been away for a while attending to other responsibilities and basically soaking the myriad of events in corporate and “political” Nigeria. and yes….I have missed you. today ,I am writing on a subject matter I am going to be speaking on at the forthcoming BIG BREAK MOMENT series powered by the MODEL MARK team sometime in early December…its called “THE TROUBLE WITH BEING GIFTED”..watch out for that.
We all have one gift or the other….and that’s a blessing because if properly engaged, our gifts will make a way for us….the dictionary defines a gift as “a special ability or capacity; natural endowment; talent…” So it SHOULD simply mean that your gifting gives an added advantage in certain areas……but wait a minute..it doesn’t always turn out like that….ok!
Do you know that there are certain issues that come with being gifted and thats just what I am talking about here…it’s so important because far too many “would-have-been-champions” who are blessed and gifted have in one way or another turned their gifting to burdens or curses…..yes Sir! Sad but so!!!!… A couple of days whilst sharing my thoughts on this subject,someone asked me how being gifted could possibly have any form of trouble……great question….and so I answer…..
I really love this pic……….cover of a great book
The first trouble with being gifted is NOT KNOWING THAT YOU ARE GIFTED!!!!……let’s talk some bible..the bible tells me that GOD would not give (or allow) us MORE than we can bear……permit me to rephrase as thus; GOD would not give us more than we are “equipped”, “talented” or “Gifted” to bear! So it simply means that for your level of gifting,you would attract the same level of challenges or burdens and the way you would overcome these challenges and burdens is by engaging your equipment,talents or gifts……that’s clear,isn’t it?
Now imagine with me, that with all these challenges,you don’t even know what your gifts are!!! My Goodness….you surely will have struggles you no answer to….what are you going to engage??? The Challenges are there because of your gifts and yet you don’t know your gift!!!! Sure sounds like trouble to me
Seek,reach deep and you shall find….
Ok! The second trouble that comes with being gifted is being TOO aware of your gifts!!! Yep,we just moved from one extreme to the other!! Being over conscious of gifts makes room for pride which is definitely leads to over dependence on those gifts which can lead to failure if not checked….what do I mean?
So you are great guy with great gifts..then you begin to think you are THAT great and start looking down on other peoples gifts thinking your gifts are sufficient to see you through….forgetting that you are not wired to Win all by yourself (OUCH)…you need the butler to open the door of opportunity to you…you need the traffic man to pass you along the pathway of champions…..but you feel you don’t need them because you got gifts…..then you crash….gifted but failed…..gifted but not delivering ….gifted but stuck!!!!
Don’t let your gift stand in your way…you need the next man’s gift as well
Have a great day….stay on the Pathway of Champions